Time Heals all Wounds

I am the youngest of five children. Life has given me a wonderful life partner who I married a long time ago and with whom I have given birth to two beautiful and healthy girls. From my perspective, life is extraordinary. I strongly cherish my family, my friends, and above all, life itself.

Life has also brought along obstacles that I have managed to overcome. I recovered from a stillborn delivery, followed by a miscarriage; both events happened two years apart. During my final maternity leave, I replenished my energy by the means of Mother Earth, and this allowed me to continue with my life. I undertook gardening and have not stopped since. Rain or shine, I would till the earth. This was my way of releasing, bit by bit, my mental suffering which I had acknowledged and was now ready to let go. According to a Native woman, this practice is the natural approach to healing wounds caused by our life experiences on Earth. I remember feeling appeased and tireless.

When these two unfortunate events occurred, I needed to be present, physically and mentally, for my beautiful 5-year-old daughter Camille. What grieved me the most was announcing the sad news to my daughter, who was waiting for a younger sibling with open arms. How would I tell her? Fortunately, life always seems to provide us with the necessary resources, which in our case was a wonderful pediatrician. She suggested we convey the news to our daughter by showing her a picture of the deceased baby we called Élise. In spite of the stillborn delivery and the miscarriage, I managed to become pregnant a fourth and last time in 2002, giving birth to a healthy baby we named Alexanne. She was full of life!

It is true that “time heals all wounds”. I must admit that for some time I felt guilty about my unsuccessful pregnancies, but after discussing with many people, I realized that they were lessons of life. From that moment on, I stopped questioning myself. Admittedly, I often recall these events. However, my angels have given me the courage and strength to overcome them. I can feel their presence and can imagine them sitting on a cloud, side by side, waiting to help and protect us when we need them.

On a more positive note, I have learned to discover my inner self and become the woman that I am today. Being a Libra, I am creative, energetic and very sociable. I seek tranquility and inner peace, and I am very generous. When making decisions, I am somewhat ambivalent and I am striving to rectify this particular aspect of my personality. I usually evaluate the pros and cons meticulously before deciding. I try to develop harmonious and peaceful relationships with everyone I know. I also procrastinate and, depending on the situation, this can represent a quality or a flaw!

My love for fitness training drives me to the gym six days per week. I do strength training, spinning, and yoga. In the winter, I regularly go downhill skiing and skating. I eventually wish to try snowshoeing, kayaking and mountain climbing. I try to eat well and keep myself informed with current healthy eating practices. I enjoy having great food and drinks in the presence of people I love.

I still have much to discover. Sewing, drawing, Chinese calligraphy and tea tastings are only a few of the activities I want to explore. I currently harbor many dreams, such as: climbing a mountain to surpass myself, working with rescued animals (from the jungle or tropical forest), completing a humanitarian mission (building institutions, helping women and children), and going on a sailboat cruise to feel free like the wind.

To conclude, here is a simple saying that my friend has shared with me and that has kept me focused on the essential things in life: “Love overcomes everything.”

Have you experienced darker periods in your life? How did you manage to overcome them? Let us know by adding your comment to Nicole’s article on the Women’s Expressions Web site or submit your very own story by e-mail at Stories@WomensExpressions.com . We want to read your life experiences interpreted in your own way.

Story by Nicole
Edited by Zoé G.

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